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Sunday, October 23, 2011

Square Dance!


One of the events we look forward to in October is our annual Square Dance with our church, Emmaus. We do this as an outreach and a fun event each year, having a pot luck, callers for 2 hours of dancing and some fun little prizes for best dressed. Stephen loves going every year, learning how to dance and playing with his friends. I love it too. Its fun doing all the line dancing, and learning the square dances. Stephen is usually my partner but I had a new one this year, Scottie! He even got into it a little. Shaun did a lot of sleeping but I did line dance with him in the front pack. (Picture taken by someone else and I am still waiting on it.) We had a great evening and hope that Peter will join us next year!

Friday, September 30, 2011

Uncle Jeremy Visits!



Although I don't have too many pictures of this week, it was wonderful to have my brother come and visit during his harvest break! The boys loved playing Transformers and Batman with Jeremy as he actually knows what they want him to do (Mom is good, but Uncle Jeremy is the best!)
We also went camping while he was here in Maryland. He had a great time getting to know some of my friend's kids, playing "ghost in the graveyard", baseball on the sand, in the water at the lake, marshmallows over the fire and just hanging out with the guys.
Shaun loved his time with his uncle, and I loved watching him with my boys. He will be a good dad someday... way in the future! I loved getting to know him better seeing what a great young man he is becoming. I hope we have more time together like this in the future! To say goodbye, I made him a special meal... his favorite~ Chicken parmesean.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Quarter Year Mark!!


Shaun is now 4 months old... How quick did that go by?!? Hard to imagine that my baby is growing up that fast, these stages going quicker every month it seems! He started rolling side to side this month, enjoying being talked to while cooing back, he lights up when someone he knows walks into the room, started sitting in the bumbo chair, is enjoying the exer~saucer as long as there is something to help prop him upright. He is also grabbing everything and putting it to his mouth, went on a camping trip, had fun with Uncle Jeremy, played with Grammy and Granddad Cole, went to some play dates with other kids, had his first cold (which he is still battling) and is enjoying being a baby. Hope you like these pics from this month!!







Oh my boy... How fearfully and wonderfully you are made!

Thursday, September 22, 2011

3 Birthdays!


This past weekend we celebrated 3 Birthdays! Scottie had his birthday on Thursday and Peter and Christiana shared a birthday on Tuesday, so we all got together for a dinner and gift exchange on Sunday. Dad and B-Mom came up with Christiana and we had a yummy southern feast, fried chicken, biscuits, green beans, mac and cheese and watermelon! It was delicious! Then to top it all off, was a chocolate cake with white icing (because I got it!). It was a fun afternoon with family, topped off by a win for the Redskins! Life is good.


Friday, September 16, 2011

3 Years OLD!!













Who can believe that my boy, Scottie, is already three?? We had a great time dispite the setbacks~ RAIN for a park party, a fridge going out, and a mom who freaked out about having to have 16 kids to her house! The party was a hit, the kids all just played together (no need for organized games or anything yet!) the moms conversed, and Scottie got to be the center of attention! This year's theme was Batman, who has become Scottie's best guy. He loves Batman!
Since Scottie is now three, he came to me and said, "Mom, I'm three. I don't need pull ups any more. I'm a big, big boy now." So I let him sleep without the pull up and he has been dry ever since! I am so proud of him!


I pray this year is fantastic for you, Scottie. That we have many memories made, you grow up big and strong, you learn patience, kindness, self-control, and that you have fun! I love you, my big boy!

Saturday, September 10, 2011

3 Months old!!





Shaun is reaching another milestone in his life, 3 months old! He is growing so quickly and developing more and more every day! Some of his new tricks this month are smiling and cooing, especially at Mommy and Daddy and brothers Stephen and Scottie, holding his head up from his tummy, noticing toys, and loving his passie.
This was a busy month starting with a trip to Maine, meeting Grandpa Tim, Uncle Jeremy and Aunt Kristen and seeing Grandma Mari again. It was a long drive but Shaun was a trooper and did fantastic! He loved the outdoors, swinging in the hammocks, and all the hold time he was given by Aunt Krissy. Other big things that went on this month was a trip to OCC, a cool motorcycle shop in New York, play datesafter school with friends, back to school night for big-brother Stephen, and a trip to Ohio.

We had a blast with our cousins and it was fun to have the babies together as Rachel has a little girl 3 weeks older than Shaun! (More on our trip to Ohio on another blog post...) I sure can't wait to see how much Shaun grows and changes this next month!

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Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Oh the places you'll go...





Oh, the Places You'll Go!

by Dr. Seuss


Congratulations!
Today is your day.
You're off to Great Places!
You're off and away!
You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes
You can steer yourself
any direction you choose.
You're on your own. And you know what you know.
And YOU are the guy who'll decide where to go.

You'll look up and down streets. Look 'em over with care.
About some you will say, "I don't choose to go there."
With your head full of brains and your shoes full of feet,
you're too smart to go down any not-so-good street.
And you may not find any
you'll want to go down.
In that case, of course,
you'll head straight out of town.

It's opener there
in the wide open air.

Out there things can happen
and frequently do
to people as brainyand footsy as you.

And when things start to happen,
don't worry. Don't stew.
Just go right along.
You'll start happening too.

OH!
THE PLACES YOU'LL GO!

You'll be on your way up!
You'll be seeing great sights!
You'll join the high flierswho soar to high heights.

You won't lag behind, because you'll have the speed.
You'll pass the whole gang and you'll soon take the lead.
Wherever you fly, you'll be the best of the best.
Wherever you go, you will top all the rest.

Except when you don't
Because, sometimes, you won't.

I'm sorry to say so
but, sadly, it's trueand Hang-ups
can happen to you.

You can get all hung up
in a prickle-ly perch.
And your gang will fly on.
You'll be left in a Lurch.

You'll come down from the Lurch
with an unpleasant bump.
And the chances are, then,
that you'll be in a Slump.
And when you're in a Slump,
you're not in for much fun.
Un-slumping yourself is not easily done.
You will come to a place where the streets are not marked.
Some windows are lighted. But mostly they're darked.
A place you could sprain both your elbow and chin!
Do you dare to stay out? Do you dare to go in?
How much can you lose? How much can you win?

And IF you go in, should you turn left or right...
or right-and-three-quarters? Or, maybe, not quite?
Or go around back and sneak in from behind?
Simple it's not, I'm afraid you will find,
for a mind-maker-upper to make up his mind.
You can get so confused
that you'll start in to race
down long wiggled roads at a break-necking pace
and grind on for miles across weirdish wild space,
headed, I fear, toward a most useless place.
The Waiting Place...

...for people just waiting.
Waiting for a train to go
or a bus to come, or a plane to go
or the mail to come, or the rain to go
or the phone to ring, or the snow to snowor waiting around for a Yes or a No
or waiting for their hair to grow.
Everyone is just waiting.

Waiting for the fish to bite
or waiting for wind to fly a kite
or waiting around for Friday night
or waiting, perhaps, for their Uncle Jake
or a pot to boil, or a Better Break
or a string of pearls, or a pair of pants
or a wig with curls, or Another Chance.
Everyone is just waiting.
NO!
That's not for you!

Somehow you'll escape
all that waiting and staying.
You'll find the bright places
where Boom Bands are playing.

With banner flip-flapping,
once more you'll ride high!
Ready for anything under the sky.
Ready because you're that kind of a guy!
Oh, the places you'll go! There is fun to be done!
There are points to be scored. there are games to be won.
And the magical things you can do with that ball
will make you the winning-est winner of all.
Fame! You'll be famous as famous can be,
with the whole wide world watching you win on TV.

Except when they don't.
Because, sometimes, they won't.
I'm afraid that some times
you'll play lonely games too.
Games you can't win
'cause you'll play against you.

All Alone!
Whether you like it or not,
Alone will be something
you'll be quite a lot.
And when you're alone, there's a very good chance
you'll meet things that scare you right out of your pants.
There are some, down the road between hither and yon,
that can scare you so much you won't want to go on.

But on you will go
though the weather be foul
On you will go
though your enemies prowl
On you will go
though the Hakken-Kraks howl
Onward up many
a frightening creek,though your arms may get sore
and your sneakers may leak.

On and on you will hike
and I know you'll hike far
and face up to your problems
whatever they are.

You'll get mixed up, of course,
as you already know.
You'll get mixed up
with many strange birds as you go.So be sure when you step.
Step with care and great tact
and remember that Life's
a Great Balancing Act.
Just never forget to be dexterous and deft.
And never mix up your right foot with your left.

And will you succeed?
Yes! You will, indeed!
(98 and 3/4 percent guaranteed.)
KID, YOU'LL MOVE MOUNTAINS!

So...
be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray
or Mordecai Ali Van Allen O'Shea,
you're off to Great Places!
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting.
So...get on your way!
Today Stephen started Kindergarden! He was so excited leaving this morning. He woke up and got dressed in the yellow and blue striped polo shirt and jean shorts he picked out to wear the night before. He came beaming into our room, and said, " Dad, you know today is my first day of school!" and Peter replied, " I know. Are you excited?" to which Stephen answered with a great big grin on his face "Yes!" He had apple cinnamon oatmeal for breakfast, waved good-bye to his Dad as he left for work.
I finished packing his lunch of Mac and cheese, fruit cup, sugar snap peas and carrots with Ranch, Capri Sun and Kit Kat bar. Then we heard his friend Michael outside and Stephen wanted to say hi. We went out and then Stephen said, "Mom can I ride the bus too with Michael?"For a minute, I stopped because that was not my plan. I wanted to take Stephen to school for his very first day... but I gave in to my little boy who is growing up,and waved as he loaded the bus, said "I love you. Have a great day." and watched him as he sat down with his buddy and drove away. He is such a big boy.

Scottie woke up about 45 minutes after Stephen left for school (him riding the bus being a blessing in disguise so I wouldn't have to wake Scott to take him to school) and his first words were, "Mom, where's Stephen?" I told him Stephen went to school and Scottie replied, "I am going to miss him. I love my brother." and cuddled into my arms. Its him that will miss Stephen the most during these first few weeks.
I can't wait until Stephen comes home from school and I can find out how his day was. The hardest part of it all for me is that Stephen is making all these memories and growing up without me. I have been there for everything with him, his first smile, kiss, foods, walking, park outing, and so on, and now he is creating his own world, one I can't even look in on but from a distance. He is growing up. I know he will do fine, excel even, and he is so ready for this new adventure but I am sad at what we will miss together. I am so excited at the same time. A new chapter of life has started...